Dr. Diane E. Levin, a professor of early childhood education at Wheelock College in Boston, coined the term “compassionate deficit disorder.” She uses this term to describe the influx of children who lack empathy and meet their needs by exhibiting bullying behavior. Dr. Levin attributes these problems to an increased amount of screen time (causing anti-social behavior), an increase in toys mimicking screens, families who have to work more due to financial stress (thereby increasing screens as a means to occupy their kids), and parents planning activities outside of the home to occupy their kids, where playtime with peers is substituted for time with adults controlling all activities.
In a nutshell, Dr. Levin said to counter this trend adults need to model healthy social behaviors. We all need to model compassion and talk our kids through their problems, rather than punishing them for being anti-social. Our schools are pushing academia over teaching social curriculum. A perfect scriptural summation of the solution is found in Colossians 3:12-14: “Put on, then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.”
Wow! If adults made this their mantra for the remainder of their lives, our children would have ideal models of healthy, biblical social behaviors. It should not surprise us that as we move further away from biblical norms our societal norms will shift towards chaos. We have the perfect model to imitate in the scriptures!
